good connections with kids

[aruna]

how I build my relationship with kids :

      First I give respect for kids and her/his feelings.kids like good relationship all ages so I can give warmth and kind for kids.

appreciate all the ways that is very good way for kids growth. Don't  negotiate kids choice. Use Positive words every where.

[amelia]

When people want to make connections, they demonstrate interest in what the child is saying and actively listen by maintaining eye contact, respect, and confidentiality. When speaking with children, leaning towards the child and kneeling to be on their level also helps make connections.

[Vale02]

The interpersonal relationships are marked by an atmosphere of friendship, respect, understanding, listening and a lot of affection; aspects that increase self-esteem, learning and sense of belonging of children.These needs turn out to be fundamental during school age, because at this stage, interpersonal relationships have a great value in children's social emotional and cognitive development.

[ashleyeden]

In order to have a good relationship with kids, I try to always speak to them as though they were my peer until they need redirecting and become sterner as is necessary. Speaking gently to kids who are upset is a small way to show them that you care as well.

[Haley Philyaw]

In my culture I show interest in making a connection with other people by making eye contact, by displaying open body posture (not crossing arms, angling myself toward the person i am speaking to)
When working with children I get down on the level by sitting in a chair or crouching down next to them. It is appropriate in my culture to place a hand on a childs shoulder or an arm around around a child but this might not make everyone feel comfortable and it is important to be sensitive to that. Then ask open ended question and engage in active listening. 
People of different backgrounds may not feel comfortable with eye contact, or physical contact. 

[srambow]

For making a good connection with kids i make eye connection and good body language (usually get down onto their eye level if they are sitting), i have a warm tone and i also listen and don't interrupt someone in the middle of talking.