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Post by Tenille hockenbury on May 24, 2017 19:51:36 GMT -8
I definitely think this could depend on age, culture, background, and a plethora of other factors, but I will generalize what I feel like it is for most people, and especially myself. Someone who wants to make a connection may act in close proximity, doing things to try to catch your eye; then wait to watch for your reaction, they may try to spark a conversation by complimenting you or asking a question. They may try to watch you for a while first to learn a little bit about you so that they can try to make a connection of similarities in yours and their life. I think all of these are culturally embedded because these days it's "weird" to just go to someone and ask someone if you can talk ad try to make a connection.
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Post by Ruth on May 25, 2017 12:36:49 GMT -8
When people want to make connection they make it known to the other person in interest by giving them their full attention, eye contact, availability, ask questions, start a conversation with you, etc. They may talk with excitement, interest, shyness, quietness until you approve/acknowledge them, and they may listen attentively, eagerly, excited, and show interest. Each culture is different in making connections with others but I think there is a common ground, action and/or reaction to communicating with someone of interest.
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